Mai thoughts on life

Was I too much? Or not enough? Breakups can leave you questioning your worth and sometimes even your whole reality. But one day soon you will realize that no matter how devastating they can be, breakups are beautiful.

When someone is not meant for you, life triggers them to hurt you over and over again until you release them. Breakups exist to show you the law of detachment. They teach you that nothing is really yours. You have to be comfortable with yourself and not attached to anybody. Not because you don’t want them, but because you are not afraid to be without them. Enjoy it while it lasts and move on when it’s time. Don’t force. Don’t chase. Don’t beg. Let it flow. Let love come and go.

Suffering is inevitable. That’s just how it is. Go with it. Let the heartbreak show you parts of yourself you never knew existed. Let it teach you who you really are. There is nothing more beautiful than knowing your value.

When you are going through a breakup think of butterflies and the struggle they have to go through to become what they were always intended to be. For butterflies to get out of their cacoon is incredibly painful and difficult. But once they finish with the process they come out as magnificent creatures. So magnificent that everyone likes to stop and admire their beauty.

Let that breakup transform you into a butterfly. Make the world stop and admire your beauty. Grow into yourself and let your light shine. The pain is there to push you forward. To force you to meet your hidden strength. And to make you become who you were always meant to be.

You are strong. You are powerful. You are love. Accept it. Embrace it. You are love and love is you. Breakups are just a way of bringing that love to surface so you can immerse yourself in it. They can make you magnificent. Trust in yourself and one day soon you will realize that breakups are beautiful.